Birthday Ideas

Last weekend, my friend’s daughter turned 7. Instead of handing out identical return gifts to 25 kids, she set up a “gift station” at the party entrance—a table covered with colorful trays, each holding 3–4 different gift options. As each child arrived, they got to pick what they wanted. The result? Zero complaints about “I […]

Picture this: Your 6-year-old’s birthday party is in full swing. Cake’s cut, games are happening, return gifts are lined up. Then you notice little Aarav from next door—4 years old, not invited, just tagging along with his sister—standing in the corner, staring at the gift table with those big, sad eyes. His sister got a

When you’re planning a school birthday, this is the big question: Should you send one good, solid gift per child, or a loot bag with multiple small items? On Instagram, loot bags look fun and generous. In real classrooms, teachers and parents often feel the opposite—too much clutter, too much sugar, too much pressure. Let’s break it

The jump from 9–10-year-olds to 13-year-olds is brutal from a return-gift point of view. Suddenly, cartoon pencil boxes and bubble wands stop working. Teens are polite, but you can see it on their faces when something feels “babyish”—it goes straight into a drawer and dies there. The good news: 13-year-olds are actually easy to please

Two types of parents exist when it comes to kids’ parties. The first type counts invites, orders exactly that many return gifts and that much food, and then spends the entire party stressed because three extra kids show up and two confirmed guests don’t come. The second type uses a simple formula, builds a small

Last month, my friend Meera sent her daughter to school with 35 beautifully wrapped chocolate boxes for her birthday. At 3 PM, she got a call from the class teacher: “Please collect the chocolates. We don’t allow candy distribution anymore.” Meera was mortified. She’d spent ₹3,500 on those chocolates. She had to scramble to the

My sister’s son turned one last October. The guest list? A nightmare to plan for. Twenty adults (mostly parents of her mom-friends), twelve toddlers aged 1-4, eight kids aged 5-9, and three teenagers who got dragged along by their parents. She called me panicking. “Do I give the same gift to a 2-year-old and a